when speaking with a woman the other day the topic of relationships came up. i mentioned that me and Tim have a great relationship, and got a look of shock. when she asked me how long we were together i told her a year then the look of "that's why" showed up, just wait she said its always great in the beginning. i can understand why she thinks this way,this isn't my first relationship. i don't wanna sound "loose"(sad a woman is considered loose when looking for her perfect man) but yeah i have dated alot my longest relationship was ten years.
well, now she has me wondering. i love Tim more then i have ever loved a man, he is gentle, romantic and has the ability to walk away from a argument and stay calm. when it comes to me things are much different because i am the type of person who stresses out and has anxiety attacks, these little tantrums are hard to deal with i have to give Tim credit for putting up with me and still shows his love for me. to defend my self on these tantrums, they are being controlled by therapy.
on with my question: is my relationship going great because its early? i wanna try something to see if this early love theory could be true with Tim and i. here is the deal i am gonna try and come up with TEN things i dislike about Tim and TEN things i love about him, i promise i am being honest. promise you i am a honest person.
DISLIKE LIST
- he drinks alcohol
- spends too much time on his computer
- has no income(not his fault)
- loves oral sex too much
- sleeps like he is the only one in bed
- farts alot
- forgets where he puts anything
- doesn't try and preheat my oven(wink!wink!)
- (blank)
- (blank)
LOVE ABOUT TIM LIST
- welcomed my son into his life
- romantic
- caring/gentle
- honest
- beautiful blue eyes that i want to stare into for hours
- smart
- helpful around our home(does more then me)
- we spend 24/7 together without fighting
- great sexual fulfillment
- takes no sex honey without getting upset.
i honestly couldn't fill the dislike list but if i think of anything i will add it to the list. I might be thought of as a full out idiot after what am about to write. there is a such thing as the sure thing feeling. the longer we are together the more the sure thing feeling grows and it grows in your heart and soul.
one more odd thing about our relationship is we met on line. i wasn't looking for a relationship and when i say wasn't i mean it, i .would of rather of gotten the flu. looking for love on line was a definitely not or a never ever! Tim found me on a friend list and we talked for months before we ever met, he helped me through issues and i did the same for him. if this woman is right and our year old relationship isn't gonna be peaches and cream the older it gets and Tim and i split( i don't believe it will), i still wouldn't look on line for love, Tim was a meant to be and be both feel the same.time will tell.......if anyone out there reading this has a comment please let me know how you feel on the subject. ARE RELATIONSHIPS LIKE FRESH JUICY FRUIT, THE OLDER THEY GET... THEY GO ROTTEN?
1 comment:
I think a relationship can grow even better with time and nurturing, like a fine old wine.
Keep on enjoying what you have!
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