what started out as a great evening ended in one hell of a battle. tim and i are friends with this couple, lets call them lisa and robert, they are fun to be around and our sons play together also. robert and lisa just moved to florida from boston have 3 children at home and are tring to adjust to their new home and city. they are having some problems and argue alot, mostly over money and stress.
lisa has been waiting for her friend to visit from boston in hopes to have a good time and cheer up a little. lisa and debbie have been friends for years and know eachother well. robert on the other hand cant stand the trouble maker that debbie is and was not looking forward to the visit as a matter of fact the children werent either.
tim and i have been at lisa and roberts house and robert and lisa would start arguing over what ever the issue for that day. when ever they would ask our opinion tim and i would stand our neutral groud we like them both and hope there is a way for our friends to work out there problems. we finally found a couple we could relate to.
now for the wammie.... debbie arrived!! debbie has 2 children ages 5 and 6 and brought lisa's neice, they are staying with lisa and her family. yup 6 children ages ranging from 2 to 20 plus 3 adults!! by the way lisa and robert live in a 3 bedroom condo, tight space for 9 people. while debbie is visiting lisa, she wanted to make sure she showed her guest a good time. they drove all over to parks , tourist atractions and so on with whinny kids and no help from debbie she would put it all on lisa.
i drove with them to the beach one day and listened as debbie would tell lisa that robert was no good for her and to get rid of him. saying lisa is it really worth all the fighting? it made me sick if she is a friend shouldnt she be helping the situation instead of causing more of a issue. i kept my mouth shut to stay neutral. but while we were at the beach lisa griped about debbie how she is driving her nuts and so are her kids. lisa couldnt wait for debbie to go home.
robert and lisa had been arguing more while debbie has been around(debbie instigates) so i suggested they should get some alone time together no kids no debbie, so they did. i was outside my condo and all of a sudden lisa's door slams open and her neice is screaming curse words at debbie and she ran ouut of the house. i let her stay by my house until lisa returned from her and roberts quite time. before too long 3 more children came running out upset also and wound up at my home. lisa and robert came d.riving up upset and pissed because debbie was drunk and fighting with the children which made them have to run home and get control over the situation. there went their quiet time.
lisa asked tim and i if we wanted to go to the bar with them, why not it would be nice for tim and i to get out! i dont drink so i could drive them all home. we were gonna have a great time. the children stayed at my house and the situation with debbie and them was fixed. that doesnt mean robert or lisa was happy with her at all but as a nice gesture robert invited debbie to go along. (lisa didnt want her to). we get to the bar and everyone gets their drinks and we settle in for a fun night. so i thought but when debbie is drunk she does become a trouble maker for sure, she was mad that lisa sat next to me, she tried her hardest to start trouble amungst robert and lisa and succeded. lisa was drunk too and is very impressionable when she gets drinking. then the shit hit the fan debbie starts flirting with two guys sittng near by and trys to get lisa to ask them buy some drinks for her and lisa. debbie knew this would get robert going for sure. i sat there and baby sat the two while the men played pool. next i knew robert and lisa were outside fighting and robert was tring to get the keys from her, he had enough and wanted to leave. i went outside to help defuse the situation and get the keys. lisa kept saying she didnt have them that debbie did and debbie said nope i dont have them. the owner of the bar started getting involved, the cops were driving up so i calmed lisa down and the cop just drove thru. finally debbie being a smart ass says look the keys just magically appeared! what a trouble make that woman is. by this time tim and i are so mad at debbie for causing so much trouble amoung robert and lisa we just wanted to leave before we opened our mouths.
driving everyone home was a big blow up. debbie fighting with robert and robert fighting with her and lisa. tim,i or robert are not fans of debbie at this point we were finished and could no longer keep our mouths shut. robert asked me to pull over he needed to get out of the car before he did somthing he would regret, i did as he wished. tim wanted to walk with robert but thankfully stayed in the car. tim is not the type of person to yell and fight he would rather avoid conflicts. tim could no longer bite his tonque he ripped debbie into one. telling her to shut the f***k up and stop starting trouble. tim told her she was a horrible person and he couldnt stand her anymore, tim would never yell at a woman. this woman was the devil in a dress, she was unhappy with her single life so it seemed she had to bring lisa to that level. when we got back to our home i finally had to open my mouth, she pushed me to far, when debbie got into my face i thought for sure we were gonna start swinging. i gave her a piece of my mind and same for her, she screamed at me saying i was jealous that her and lisa were best friends. i let debbie know i wasnt a child anymore and that wasnt my reason for getting angry it was the fact she was hurting my friends relationship. tim and i told the evil devil woman that if she was a true friend she would be helping robert and lisa with their relationship instead of driving a wedge into it. tim and i went home and calmed down thankful it was over, our exciting evening!
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